30 days of dominance : Day 10


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Day 10 Do you utilise any elements of BDSM in your Dominant style? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your Dominance, peripheral or non-existent? Seriously. You’re asking me this. lol Hmm let me ponder this a … Continue reading

Hang on just a second…


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After our visitor, Medical_Slave, came over to see us, a few of our other friends decided they’d like to try Grimly’s latest rig as well! Grimly and I were quite happy to oblige. Whilst you may think we only do … Continue reading

Split in two


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The video I shot with anne_Omalley is now on Serious Images…take a look but here’s an introduction: From Serious Images – This is another fantastic and unusual video. Our friend Mrs Feendish (FetLife) takes her submissive on a special trip with the use … Continue reading

O is for . . .


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The bondage alphabet continues! To recap – the previous letters of the bondage alphabet are here – A, B, C, D, E, F, G ,H, I, J,K ,L, M and N O is for orgasm overload and technically also for open-breasted catsuit and open faced hood (not that you can see the hood … Continue reading

Shopping therapy Sunday #10 : E-stim Systems

This is the tenth post in a series on various kink retail experiences this girl has had. This series of posts are based on personal experience and are not sponsored reviews, she has not received any money or free products based on her comments.

Hopefully this series might introduce you to some new items and websites you might not have seen before or give you confidence to go ahead with a purchase. Anyway hopefully you will enjoy! 

Shop : E- Stim Systems
Located in : UK
Available to visit in person : No shop premises however attend fetish events across the UK
Language :  English :  items priced in £


Site layout : Easy to navigate, products categorised by type i.e power boxes and electrodes, useful safety information also included.
Items available : A range of electro play power boxes and electrodes for men and women including different inventive designs.
Pricing : reasonable and great for the quality bearing in mind electro play can turn into quite an expensive fetish
Ordering :shopping cart system with various payment methods. You can set up an account and get updates and things too.
Communication : Friendly and keep you updated. This girl first came across E-stim systems at the BBB and they are very friendly and knowledge about what they make and sell.
Postage : From memory it was reasonable

What this girl boughtRemote control power box

This girl bought the remote control power box from Estims not long after it first came out which was around about 2006 as a birthday present for Grimly.   She thought he might enjoy combining remote-control e-stim with other things whilst either at fetish events or out shopping, or well, anywhere! Grimly had already made the remote control shocker on the chastity belt  which delivered a short sharp shock above the clit, but the idea behind the e-stims box was that it would work with any electrode such as an internal one or pads.

To be honest its not seen a great deal of use, mainly because most of the electro play this girl and Grimly do is at home and Grimly has some Erostek ET312’s for that.  However this girl and Grimly have had a lot of fun with it when its been used and it has three different ways of shocking you, a short shock, a constant one, or a pulse and the power goes from mild to certainly higher than this girl can take. This girl’s alter ego Mrs Feendish used it on her sub at the last club they were at with quite interesting results 😉 (ok so thats an understatement but you can go away and use your imagination a bit) The only thing this girl doesn’t like about the remote box is that there’s no display to say what level its on but then its perhaps more fun working that out by reading reaction rather than a display  -at least in the situations where she’s in control of the buttons!

The aftercare from Estims is what makes them really good and their products come with a lifetime guarantee which not very many kink retailers will do that. This girl had to have something updated on her box a year or two after she got it and they were incredibly helpful. Whilst this girl and Grimly like the control box they have from Erostek as well, Erostek don’t offer anything like that sort of aftercare and their product has been the same since this girl first heard of them – which sometimes things don’t need to change, but sometimes new ideas are fun too. Estims have grown a lot over the years in this girl’s opinion and she knows people who have the 2B box (which does a similar job to the ET312) and people seem to like it. The 2B can be computer controlled as well. For that reason this girl would quite like to get one, but well, in the grand scheme of things its a non essential investment at the moment!

If you have had experience of this site or their products and want to leave a comment (good or bad – provided it can be supported) please do so .

Hope you have enjoyed this review 🙂

Pulsating . . .

Synonyms 1. pulse. Pulsate, beat, palpitate, throb refer to the recurrent vibratory movement of the heart, the pulse, etc. To pulsate is to move in a definite rhythm, temporarily or for a longer duration: Blood pulsates in the arteries. To beat is to repeat a vibration or pulsation regularly for some time: One’s heart beats many times a minute. To palpitate is to beat at a rapid rate, often producing a flutter: to palpitate with excitement. To throb is to beat with an unusual force that is often associated with pain or heightened emotion or sensation: to throb with terror.

Some people ask what electricity feels like and that seems to sort of hit something…

This girl can only comment on what it feels like for her of course, and yet, even then, its difficult to describe something which is so intense, erotic and orgasmic without saying ‘look here just you bloody try it yourself because otherwise you can only take my word for it’. Not everyone can try it easily of course, given that it requires the right equipment and the expertise of someone that knows what they’re doing – but it is definately worth it if you get the opportunity to give it a shot (provided of course you have no medical conditions that suggest it wouldn’t be sensible like epilepsy or a dodgy heart).

The easiest way for this girl to describe electro play, which she has probably said somewhere before, is that its sort of like the feeling of a very strong vibrator crossed with pins and needles but its actually a lot more than that because done correctly it sends pulses through the flesh, the nervous system and ultimately through the brain. In fact thats exactly what if feels like,  rhythmic pulses being shocked through the body.

There’s a lot of things that can be done with electricity and BDSM and the overated (sorry but it is) violet wand is just the tip of the iceburg – it just plays with the surface. Its flashy, its pretty, it looks good at demos but it can be better especially given thats last century’s technology.

The picture below shows something that happened recently, and reminded this girl just how easily a few strategically placed electrical contacts can give her Master complete control of her body. Here, she has an electrical plug rigged up to the ET312 in her vagina, pads rigged up to the tens on her nipples and pads attached to a box sold as a sort of ‘beauty aid’ to help strengthen muscles which is actually very strong on her stomach and legs and then a little butterfly tens above the clit. Ok yeah yeah its overkill. Though Grimly doesn’t know the meaning of that word. Just as well!

Imagine him, poised finger over the buttons able to send shocks to all these different parts of her body, able to vary the sensation intensity, pattern and whether its just one place being shocked, or several, or all.

When the power is delivered, it sends tingles to the pads and to the contacts and to the plug, it makes the skin around it pulse and tingle and feel very sensitive and also, because the pads are placed to be on muscles – he can make her body move, twitch, and wriggle about without this girl being able to stop it. Its a really funny sensation. Its like being an electric or remote controlled puppet, instead of one controlled by strings. He decides which parts of her body can move, not her.

Its an odd feeling that. Knowing that as soon as he presses the button she will loose momentary control of her own limbs. She knows of course that she is completely safe in his hands so its hardly a concern and it is also extremely erotic, feeling completely controlled by him, his toy, his experiment.

Ok, so this is all a little ‘frankensteins monster’ “More power Igor”, but then, who needs haunted castles and lightening bolts when you’ve got batteries, wires and an evil genius. Its so much less melodramic and much more sinisterly clinical. It is of course part of the fantasy for this girl and Grimly – to have that effect and feeling.

Sometimes yes, of course this girl feels a little bit like a guinea pig waiting for the next mad experiment and wondering what sort of post tortured state it will leave her in, but its a great big part of the fun and it feels amazing.

It is completely as though he has finger right on the pulse of what turns her on, what will drive her to orgasm and compel her towards an even deeper submission and all it is really is a few buttons and wires and his genius.  She would not be without that. Electro play isn’t for everyone, its a bit freaky, a bit edgey, and yet, in the right hands, with the right imagination…its completely mindblowing and an extremely deviant way of exercising a little control in an extremely physical but also very psychological.

50,000 volts of self defence

Today’s news courtesy of the Daily Telegraph

First there were Tupperware parties. Then came cosy, at-home sales pitches to female consumers for everything from perfume to lingerie to Botox.

But Dana Shafman has brought this tradition to a literally stunning new level with its newest incarnation – a women’s Taser party.

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Setting the scene for annus ligatio

Picture – leather straight jacket and electrics

No…the title isnt some sort of weird anal play – its supposed to be latin for year of bondage. Ok its not funny…well probably nothing is thats inspired by HRH.

This girl and her Master started the new year as they mean to continue it – with bondage, with electricity and with a lot of fun.Her Master spent about 10 days at her house over Christmas and the new year and it was great just being together for so long in one go, even though some pretence of ‘normality’ had to be observed for the sake of family and friends.

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