Get used to it!


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There are a few pieces of bondage equipment that this girl loves to hate. Usually they are things that have varying degrees of discomfort and pain but that become very sexual once that discomfort is distracted from with other tortures … Continue reading

His steely determination

Grimly has wanted to get this girl a steel chastity belt for a long time. He has threatened it and threatened it, and finally it is here. This has perhaps been expedited slightly by the fact of some friends asking him to design something special and different for them and Grimly requiring a victim for the prototype. Oh yes, with friends like that…who needs…..

Well anyway, he has now made it.  He has made this girl belts before, out of aluminium and other metals. But this one is proper stainless steel. It won’t  rust or tarnish, break or cut. In fact, it won’t do anything apart from look pretty and shiny and unbreakable. It all seems a bit overkill for the simple task of locking away the cunt of a girl who is very much a one man woman. But then, that man we are taking about is Grimly. A loveable control freak. lol.

Though thing is, it’s not even as simple as just locking away sexual organs. It doesn’t just make sex impossible. It makes NOT being sexually stimulated  impossible, and highly frustrating!

To date, there are also three remote control devices. One for a remote control electric vaginal dildo (which can be used together with an inhibitor bar), one for remote control prongs that sit just above the clit and one for a bullet vibrator. So far 😉 Something tells this girl it’s not finished yet lol.

Anyway, there’s no denying it looks pretty impressive. And terrifying.  This girl has said quite a few other times that she has mixed feelings about chastity. Though it’s one of his main fantasies. So there’s not really any getting out of it.

This girl never really thought she would be sexually controlled by someone, at ALL , let alone to this extent. In fact, if she hadn’t met Grimly she might have been like a lot of other people that just get what they get from sex, and hope for the best that there might be an orgasm somewhere along the line. Not so with him. Being controlled in that manner, having her fantasies directed by him, makes every orgasm this girl has more intense, and each one is a bit of a subliminal reminder that he’s in charge. It sort of makes her hate her body for bending to him so easily, but it feels amazing!

When he puts her in chastity, sexually things are even more heightened. Especially if there is other stimulation going on, like from the extras on the chastity belt or if he is doing things outwith that. It sort of feels a bit like an explosion simmering.

Grimly is determined that this girl will spend longer in chastity. The idea terrifies her. Though there is a bit of curiosity there as well, and a bit of fear too. It is sort of scary actually of how good being controlled by someone else can feel…especially when you know they want to do it because it’s their fantasy – and yours.

Though….the thing this girl will always like most about  any chastity device he puts on her…

is when he takes it off! THAT is not going to change, despite how she might feel about it the rest of the time!

Caught between a rock and a hard place

So,this girl and Grimly have been trying a little experiment. For just over the last three weeks this girl has been locking herself into the chastity belt every night at 10.30 on the dot.

It was one of those things that came about because this girl was daft enough to suggest it and when she asks certain types of questions she should really know deep down that he is never going to say no! She suggested it because she’d just come away from a weekend where D/s and rituals and things had been discussed and hinted at a little by other people and it got her thinking a bit. What would it feel like to have some sort of bedtime routine? In fact, this girl and Grimly have a bit of a night-time routine anyway of talking to each other being the next nearest thing to being able to cuddle and stuff normally, given the distance – so, the idea was to just do something around the time of that last call. This girl had the belt in the house, so, to try and show him she was trying to add something the D/s side of things she made the suggestion ‘how about I sleep in chastity tlll i next see you’. He was completely in favour.

This girl felt rather positively towards it as well. She wanted to consciously do something to show him that she’s trying to submit to the sort of things that make up his fantasy – of which sexual control is a very big one.

After the very first night this girl woke up in a very aroused and spaced out state. It might have had something to do with spending a good bit of that weekend thinking about girl-girl stuff and being spanked, but having a reminder of Grimly’s control was the real reason. Although it was sort of her suggestion, it was something she was doing for him and with his piece of bondage engineering.

It reminded this girl that one of her biggest motivations for getting involved with BDSM was to fulfill sexual fantasy. For something total dream-like and sensory to feel real. To be real.

Grimly has made that happen by being able to come up with all these ingenious things at the same time as being able to control when she orgasms. Even two hundred miles away he can do that. In fact how many people can do that to their partner – give them an orgasm from 200 miles away whilst they are in chastity? Probably not that many!

Ultimately, this girl loves that sexual control. Why wouldn’t she given that she has had better orgasms whilst being controlled by him than she ever has when she’s been free to sort of control them herself?! She needs things though that remind her of it. Maybe that makes her sound a bit , you know, remedial, that she needs reminding of it – but sometimes explicit signs can do a nice little job of reinforcing an idea or concept and this recent idea has ended up being very erotic.

This girl found herself getting aroused leading up to the ‘lock-up’ time and felt herself in a sort of relaxed and semi-sexual state for going to sleep. It has actually been quite relaxing and extremely surreal.  She’s felt as though she’s been almost in a constant state of arousal. Some people might think to do it overnight is a bit of  a half step, and perhaps it is, but this girl is not yet quite ready for wearing a belt full time and to work – especially since the belt Grimly has for her at the moment isn’t ready for long term wear – but he assures her he will make further modifications in the near future. Funnily enough, this girl is quite patient in that respect. It might not seem a lot to some people, especially those that wear chastity full time, but this girl felt quite proud of herself that she was able to stick to this routine without begging him to let her off or anything like that. Though, part of the reason to that of course is it turned her on as much as hopefully it turned him on. Certainly, his voice on the phone and his atttitude towards her gave this girl the impression that he was pleased with it!

And if that didn’t…certainly his arrival a few nights ago did! This girl spent the last few days with Grimly. The night he arrived it was just after lock up time. In fact, she suspects he tried to arrive for that exact time to maybe try and catch her out or maybe to lock her up himself who knows? Anyway, she had the belt on ready, and despite his weariness he was visibly turned on by it. Though, being the sadistic evil loving bastard he is…didn’t do all that much about it till the following morning. Guess what? If sleeping three weeks in chastity makes a woman horny imagine what then sleeping next to a clearly aroused man does to her? Especially one that she has dreamed about submitting to whilst in that predicament? Yes, she didn’t sleep well that night at all!

Needless to say, as an experimental routine it worked. It’s maybe not one that will happen all the time during absences, but it will happen again for sure and gave this girl some very interesting dreams.

The experience was a little dream- like, a little spacy and a little bit comprised of fantasy, but it worked. The frustration was of course at a relatively high level, but, perhaps that’s a small price to pay.

That sort of idea inspired this picture a bit in which this girl is wearing the chastity belt and collar and lying on a pile of rocks near a waterfall near a loch. It sort of illustrates the idea behind the fantasy and the idea that the sexual pleasure of one person is given by the sexual control and slight discomfort of another. But then, isn’t that what sadomasochism with a bit of romance thrown in should be about??

Yes…not exactly what you do everyday…but very interesting and erotic nonetheless!

Previous chastity posts (oldest first) :-


So..some pictures based on the cartoon from the last post….with a few Grimly modifications! 😉 The cartoon was pinched from Singleglove’s rubberpal profile, Trinity Pup’s Dom. The hood is not the same type and Grimly didn’t want her to kneel because he wanted to have the fun of making her stand straight. Why do things the easy way??

So here we have a catsuit, inflatable vibrating plug, chastity belt, an arm binder, a corset, hood, spreader bar and lots of chains, and really, it is hard standing still in all of that!

This girl was going to write more…but the pictures probably justify what happened enough without you needing an explanation…..


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Craving torment?

Pictures – the control/chastity belt with built in electrics and also pictures in the dentist chair with the electro vac torture bra!

the torment belt- chastity, electrics and sexual arousal……what led to here?

A craving for torment -and for torture, is sort of what led this girl to Grimly in the first place. A lot of her fantasies were based on medieval torture, interrogation, and generally erotic pain. Her introduction to BDSM led her to begin exploring pain for pleasure and yet it didn’t seem to go in the direction she had thought until after he appeared.

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The torment belt

Picture – torment belt – a chastity belt with a twist

This girl has written before about how much she HATES chastity belts.

BDSM arouses this girl – its about exploring sexual fantasies, about playing with sensations and learning to obey..its just…using chastity as a training tool or for discipline is just well..evil! The problem with it is that it causes frustration. Restricting something always makes you want it more and bondage that restricts sexual stimulation is hell for this girl. Bondage is really so much more fun when it leads to the end result of sensory overload and orgasm…the denial just causes build up of desires and urges and serves as a reminder that he chooses when it ends.

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