Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express your Dominance? If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or rituals?
I have a lot of stuff. Outfits. Toys. A lot. Too much even. So much that I need a bigger wardrobe, a bigger playroom, a bigger house 😉 But then again at the same time not enough either, there’s always other stuff I lust after or that I get jealous that other people have! There’s also plenty that I forget that I have. #first world fetish problems 😉
All those things help me express my dominance but aren’t essential. For one, I can be dominant easily enough just with my hands or with utensils from the kitchen, or whatever. With the right person of course.
A subbie isn’t an item or object as such, but it’s certainly the thing that helps me express my dominance the most and without which makes the whole thing a bit pointless.
The things that make me feel the most dominant are her bondage,her pain her humiliation and her devotion too.
I’ve never thought about rituals for dominance really. I have thought, and use, rituals for her submission and possibly may in the future use more. For instance, I ask her to wear her collar every night and send me messages when she wakes up. I like to think these things remind her she’s mine, but they remind me too of course 🙂