How socially connected are you as a Dominant? Do you look for others to talk to about your Dominance either for support, learning, educating or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?
I think I’m pretty well socially connected, I have a lot of ‘real life’ friends on the scene that I talk to about all sorts of things. I go to a lot of events. I’m shy, so I find meeting new people awkward but I make the effort where I can 🙂 As I said before I like introducing friends to friends of friends and that kind of thing so I network that way. I’ve also been involved with attending and also speaking at demos/workshops.
In so far as online connections, I’ve had this blog going 11 years and invite discussion on the topics I’ve written about. I’ve also met a few people from my blog in real-life who are very special to me. You know who you are 🙂
People who have questions or want to make comments can also email me through the links at the top of the page if they’d rather do that then leaving post comments 🙂
You can also find me on :
Fetlife I use Fetlife quite a lot, I’ll try and respond to most messages on it. I’ll love pictures, contribute to discussions, so I’m quite engaged on there. Or at least try to be. I do go through phases where I don’t really touch it though, when life gets in the way.
Facebook – I’m on FB but only log on really to check updates from friends and to signpost my own post and pictures. If you want to have a two-way conversation with me this is the least likely way for it to happen, I don’t really do the direct messenger thing as I don’t want to be tied to Facebook when I log on. I don’t mind being tied to many things, but Facebook isn’t one of them!
Twitter – I really like Twitter. Follow me!
I’m not on instagram, snapchat, or any of these other things. I want to live my life in real life not in front of a computer! I’m pretty sure I do that relatively vivaciously with the help of those close to me and my wider circle of friends 🙂