Do you utilise any elements of BDSM in your Dominant style? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your Dominance, peripheral or non-existent?
Seriously. You’re asking me this. lol
Hmm let me ponder this a while.
I’m sure there must be people who engage in D/s without any BDSM. That it’s maybe based on sex, or service or lots of other things that don’t necessarily involve bondage or pain. I am not one of these people. I think this is mainly because the first thing that attracted to me anything remotely kink was the idea of being tied up and hurt and also doing that to other people. I like the mental aspects of D.s but I am very much about the physical bondage and the sensations available.
I LOVE bondage. Creative ways of bondage, things with lots of straps, things with lots of latex. All sorts of things!
I enjoy being dominant to people IN bondage. Doing all sort of despicable things whilst they can’t do anything about it. For instance, kinky tofu here is being subjected to estim, breath play,vibrators and a little bit of mind control in the chair!
I love being a sadist. Particularly, in a predicament bondage situation where I can just rig it and watch the pain grow 😉 Poor Anne O’Malley! With a hook up her ass and nose, estim in her pussy and clamps that are gradually becoming more painful on her nipples and labia, there’s not a lot she can do, particularly when moving will make it hurt more.
What a stupid question!