Love our lurkers 11!


Today is the wonderful love our lurkers day which was initiated by Bonnie, and this year it is hosted by Hermione. I’ve participated in this most times its ran and its one of the blogs I look forward to writing and reading the comments on the most. My own blog here has been going more than ten years now and there’s only a few times I’ve missed this! 

Readers help keep blogs going. When I first started writing I didn’t expect anyone to read other than Grimly, but knowing other people were out there encouraged me to pour our my heart and details about my take on BDSM. I like my blog to reflect what BDSM in a loving relationship is really like for someone who is in every other sense the girl next door, and who has just been incredibly lucky in the people she’s made friends with! I’m not a model or a professional of any kind in a kink sense, just someone with a creatively eccentric husband and a crazy bunch of friends!

I suppose part of the reason why I like to keep the blog going though is that I like to show off and share my adventures, though strangely, in real life I am painfully shy! I haven’t updated so much lately, just due to well, stuffs, but I will try harder to keep on top of this if you tell me you’re still out there!

In the last few years my blog has gotten gradually less and less anonymous with people who perhaps have first met me on here becoming friends in real life and those people are friends I hope to keep for a very long time not just because of kink but because they are special to me and very loved. That’s continued again this year and I’ve made some lovely new friends and got together with old ones. Though, my highlight this year has had to be meeting Anna Rose after a crazy time at Boundcon!

So this is your opportunity to leave Grimly & I a comment, whether or not you have before! You can say a bit about yourself, or leave ideas of what you might like to read here or see pictures about, give feedback, leave links to your own blog or just a general hello. Anonymous comments are okay too. I should really start commenting more on other people’s blogs again so if you have a blog and want to direct me to it please leave a comment with a link or tell me about you🙂

The comments we’ve had on LOL days before have all been fantastic and very much appreciated by Grimly  & I. Comments don’t ever have to be in agreement with any given subject, as long as they are constructive and polite (and not spam!)

Please take this opportunity to stop by and say hello! Though to add to that, comments are always welcome on any post!

A full list of the blogs participating on LOL day is on Hermione’s blog and updated throughout the day – please have a peak there may be a new favourite

Please also join in yourself if you have a blog, LOL is running for 2 days today – today and tomorrow to allow for people in different countries to get into this🙂

So over to you…..please leave a comment! Or, if you are new here and have followed a link today take a look around!

21 thoughts on “Love our lurkers 11!

  1. I have followed your blog for a long time now, and I have always thoroughly enjoyed your writing. I think that you and Grimly or two of the nicest people I know, despite the fact that I have never met you. Whenever I read your blog I find I am in a very comforting and understanding place. I so wish that I had been able to meet you guys. Unfortunately I am getting to a point where I can no longer afford to travel as I would wish to do, but I wanted to let you know that, despite that, I feel a level of comeraderie he with you that is very meaningful for me. Thank you for being clean and honest people you are.

  2. Hope you are both going . I have been reading you blog I think from the start. Don’t put yours down as not being a model. Your blog is a very interesting read and am always looking forward to new up date. Thanks for being you!!!

  3. You’ve now been broadening my horizons in real life as well as through your blog. Thanks, and keep it up xxx

  4. Love your blog! A truly inspirational and exciting read every time. You two have a wonderful and creative relationship and I’m always eager to see a new post 🙂

  5. You write so eloquently and so freely, and your insights are unfailingly interesting. I know I am not alone in being inspired by your life and the energy and commitment you both clearly put into it. ‘Thank you’ seems a little inadequate but, well – thank you so much. Tanya

  6. This is my first, but not my last, visit here. If this post is anything to go by I will be lurking and reading regularly from now on. Happy LOL day

  7. Usually I’m just the proverbial “Fly on the wall”, enjoying what you share, and secretly wishing I could be there with you. I’m a bit envious of all the fun you’re having. Thanks for sharing.

  8. I’ve enjoyed your blog ever since I first discovered it. I love the way you write about your experiences in a fun and informative way.

    The way you mix both the technicalities of the play and the human side is great. Some kink writing is dry, like a car repair manual. Some is so gushing and touchie-feelie that it makes the reader want to throw up. Some is just plain degrading porn. Yours is none of these things – it’s entertaining, informative and uplifting.

    So thank you Ms Feendish/Thisgirlsub and Grimly and Ms O’Malley for the entertainment and inspiration you’ve given me over the last few years.

  9. Hello this is my first time here. Hope to be back. Happy LOL day.
    Hugs Lindy

  10. Have been reading your blog for a long time, but it’s only within the last year or so that I’ve opened up and embraced my own kink fully. Your candidness and openness are hugely imspiring, and it has been amazing witnessing yours and Grimly’s growth and exploration. 🙂


  11. Thank you for sharing your journey. I so enjoy the pictures and writings. I don’t always comment, but I am reading!

  12. As a long time follower, I echo the sentiments expressed above by your loyal followers and newcomers. Please continue to blog when you can, as we all know real life interferes with the “fun world”. Looking forward to your next posting.

  13. Happy LOL Days! Found your blog through Hermione and will have to come back to visit.


  14. I’ve been reading this for years and it was one of the early blogs that taught me that BDSM can be a part of a relationship in a straightforward way – just a part of how the two of you interact. So taking a moment on this post to say thank you!

  15. Just a very jealous one in the USA who would love to find my own kinky partner.

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