Today is the wonderful love our lurkers day which was initiated by Bonnie, and this year it is hosted by Hermione. I’ve participated in this most times its ran and its one of the blogs I look forward to writing and reading the comments on the most. My own blog here has been going 8 years so there’s only a few times I’ve missed this! Last year there were 23 comments here so it would be nice to beat that 😉
Readers help keep blogs going. When I first started writing I didn’t expect anyone to read other than Grimly, but knowing other people were out there encouraged me to pour our my heart and details about my take on BDSM. I like my blog to reflect what BDSM in a loving relationship is really like for someone who is in every other sense the girl next door, and who has just been incredibly lucky in the people she’s made friends with! I’m not a model or a professional of any kind in a kink sense, just someone with a creatively eccentric husband!
I suppose part of the reason why I like to keep the blog going though is that I like to show off and share my adventures, though strangely, in real life I am painfully shy!
In the last few years the blog has gotten gradually less and less anonymous with people who perhaps have first met me on here becoming friends in real life and those people are friends I hope to keep for a very long time not just because of kink but because they are special to me and very loved. That’s continued this year and I’ve made some lovely new friends and got together with old ones and I’ve just had a lovely visit from these folks who I possibly would not have met had it not been for my outlet here on the internet! It may sound cheesy but I do see regular readers/commenters as friends as well. Even Tim 😉
So this is your opportunity to leave Grimly & I a comment, whether or not you have before! You can say a bit about yourself, or leave ideas of what you might like to read here or see pictures about, give feedback, leave links to your own blog or just a general hello. Anonymous comments are okay too. I should really start commenting more on other people’s blogs again so if you have a blog and want to direct me to it please leave a comment with a link or tell me about you 🙂
Last year’s comments were fantastic and very much appreciated by Grimly & I. Comments don’t ever have to be in agreement with any given subject, as long as they are constructive and polite (and not spam!)
Please take this opportunity to stop by and say hello! Though to add to that, comments are always welcome on any post!
A full list of the blogs participating on LOL day is on Hermione’s blog and updated throughout the day – please have a peak there may be a new favourite
Please also join in yourself if you have a blog, LOL is running for 2 days today – today and tomorrow to allow for people in different countries to get into this 🙂
So over to you…..please leave a comment! Or, if you are new here and have followed a link today take a look around!