A question asked by email during this months question and answer session :-
“You mention a few areas that I would think you may want to consider more information to all. Perhaps expanding on more info and pictures. I see that you tend to practice breath play. I would like to suggest that you perhaps expand on an blog and photographs the A,B,C’s of this perhaps explaining your type of safe breath play that is performed. I get a sense of your equipment, however please see if you can a little more info on future blogs. Breath play combined with the heart rate monitor, perhaps advise where you find your equipment. Also on the bubbler bottle I am curious as to what you prefer as the liquid inside. I saw in a past post, you mentioned POPPERS in conjunction with the bubbler bottle, again, more info would be most appreciated.
Electrical play, great topic, I think, how about more on this area and last, do you play in any heavier , like .6mm latex? “
This girl does not want to give ‘advice’ on breath play. Whilst she is happy to share ideas to an extent, this website isn’t a reference guide or instruction manual, it’s essentially a free personal diary of this girl’s experiences. This girl and Grimly are both very experienced bdsm players having around 40+ years experience between them, but its not for them to say how to do it. For one, this girl would hate to think people would come to her saying ‘i tried what you advised to do and I did it wrong and hurt someone’. For that reason, this girl doesn’t want this blog to be about advice. Just experience. She hopes that makes sense, the detail given is the level of detail she is happy and comfortable to provide. She hopes that people see her images and ideas as things that are possible but are able to research things fully for themselves.
In answer to the question though, the breath play this girl and Grimly do is very controlled, mostly with gas masks and hoses and on occasion an oxygen regulator. This girl and Grimly do not use plastic bags, or nitrous or anything like that. It’s more about making it harder to breathe and more controlled than cutting oxygen completely. There are quite a few groups offering advice on the topic on fetlife, but given the dangers this girl does not want to be responsible for any advice/mis-advice, on one of the most dangerous forms of play there is.
Ultimately the thing about any play is to experiment and work out what is best for both partners,ensuring vigilance at all times to the well being of both.
A lot of the equipment Grimly and this girl have is home-made, but a lot comes from places like ebay so its just pot luck sometimes. Though this girl has reviewed a few of the shops she has used in the past for reference, and there will be more of those to follow when time and shopping funds allow 😉
The latex clothing this girl has is of fashion quality, but some of it such as the straitjackets is thicker. It has to be for what it has to endure!
Part of the fun of kink is learning and experimenting for yourself. This girl has made plenty of mistakes over the years and bad judgement decisions, but that is part of being human.