A weight off the shoulders

The last few months this girl and Grimly haven’t done very much kink together due to some time-intensive family issues so this picture is again from John‘s visit at the start of October. Luckily John took photos of lots of different gear so this girl has been able to spread out posting the pictures. John might yet post some video of it too so watch this space.

The picture shows a different red latex straightjacket to the one this girl posted before – this one has attachment points on the shoulders and is just a slightly different style. The hood is one TLCdesigns gave to this girl and Grimly for their wedding anniversary πŸ™‚


Anyway the issues this girl and Grimly have had this year sort of hindering a kink lifestyle have lessened a bit, well a lot, recently. Grimly and this girl have had to do a lot more for family this year than is normal and whilst that may be a permanent state of affairs now since elderly relatives are involved the incident that sort of sparked off a load of problems in April sort of came to a conclusion this week. It is a BIG relief. This girl does not want to go into detail on a kink blog about the ins and outs but friends who know already will know what she’s talking about and those that don’t well, you don’t really need to worry really other than maybe in the near future this girl will be able to post things for you a bit more regularly since of late she has had very little time in the playroom and little time in front of a computer as well or the headspace to write about kink topics.

In general terms though its a really odd feeling when an issue thats been a daily feature of life for months and months suddenly comes to a stop. It is a good feeling, but its also sort of weird then trying to adjust to life without that going on if that makes sense especially when there is still an element of ‘aftershock’ This girl has sort of crashed a bit too the last few days since its been an emotional rollercoaster this year and its a feeling like it suddenly been shut off just a few metres from the bottom. That and mega PMT at once this girl just feels a bit blue this weekend. However, to fix that this girl has just had a bit of kink retail therapy following Grimly visiting kinkincarlisle and also by doing some shopping herself on ebay. New stuff is always cool πŸ™‚


9 thoughts on “A weight off the shoulders

  1. I am glad to hear everything is settling down πŸ™‚ Lovely picture and yes new stuff is cool hehe, can’t wait for Friday to test my new “stuff” on someone who is already bouncing around like crazy at the thought alone lol

    Greetings from Belgium

  2. I’m glad things are beginning to sort themselves out.
    Love and virtual hugs.

  3. I’d say keep your chin, but Grimly and the leather & latex workers union have that one covered.

  4. daedae, bouncing bunnies are fun i think you should get her this for christmas http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Real-LEATHER-Bunny-face-hood-mask-zip-laces-fancy-fetish-bondage-/360537801933?pt=Adult_Fancy_Dress_UK&var=&hash=item53f1ba44cd

    among other things of course πŸ˜‰

    The Refined Dominant, I was into kink several years before I tried latex, and I love it! If you’re not sure about it start small with something like a latex top or a hood. It feels sexy and restrictive and I think looks good on most people πŸ˜‰

    Sophie, thanks , hugs to you too

    Mr_Morningstar …just about πŸ˜‰

  5. Singlegloves are really the cat’s meow for us bondage lovers out here!!

  6. I’d like a latex one. So far i just have a leather one, and I now have the singleglove dress as well πŸ™‚

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