Today is the wonderful love our lurkers day which was initiated by Bonnie, who was also the one who left my first ever comment, so I think it is very important for me to participate! I’ve participated in this most times its ran and its one of the blogs I look forward to writing and reading the comments on the most. Last year there were 19 comments it would be nice to beat that 😉
Readers help keep blogs going. When I first started writing I didn’t expect anyone to read other than Grimly, but knowing other people were out there encouraged me to pour our my heart and details about my take on BDSM. I like my blog to reflect what BDSM in a loving relationship is really like for someone who is in every other sense the girl next door, and who has just been incredibly lucky in the people she’s made friends with!
Comments don’t ever have to be in agreement with any given subject, as long as they are constructive and polite (and not spam!)
I’ve appreciated comments and feedback a lot this year because I have found it very difficult to get into any sort of kinky headspace that often given real life events conspiring against us in the background. I suppose part of the reason why I like to keep the blog going though is that I like to show off and share my adventures, ok yes I can be a drama queen 😉
In the last few years the blog has gotten gradually less and less anonymous with people who perhaps have first met me on here becoming friends in real life and those people are friends I hope to keep for a very long time not just because of kink but because they are special to me and very loved. That’s continued this year and I’ve made some lovely new friends and got together with old ones. It may sound cheesy but I do see regular readers/commenters as friends as well 🙂
So this is your opportunity to leave Grimly & I a comment, whether or not you have before! You can say a bit about yourself, or leave ideas of what you might like to read here or see pictures about, give feedback, leave links to your own blog or just a general hello. Anonymous comments are okay too.
Last year’s comments were fantastic and very much appreciated by the two of us.
Please take this opportunity to stop by and say hello! Though to add to that, comments are always welcome on any post!
A full list of the blogs participating on LOL day is on Bonnie’s blog and updated throughout the day – please have a peak there may be a new favourite
Please also join in yourself if you have a blog !
So over to you…..please leave a comment!