this post is by Mrs Feendish this girl’s alter-ego
I have always wanted a photo outside Virginia Court in Glasgow which is a listed building connected to the tobacco trade and also once some sort of corset shop though how long it has been closed I don’t know long before my living memory anyway!
Therefore on a quiet Sunday morning a few weeks ago Grimly and I decided to do some drive by photo shooting watched only by a handful of employees of the Marks & Spencers opposite having their cigarette break! lol
The picture hasn’t really turned out too good as I forgot how far away Grimly would have to stand to get me in the picture and the sign. Though regardless of the picture quality I wanted to post it as the outfit is pretty similar to what I wore for the fem-domme event at devotion so I sort of wanted to post it for that reason.
I like dressing up a lot when i’m ‘thisgirl’ I love it. It’s part of getting into the headspace and part of my kink. As Mrs Feendish I’m really not into getting dressed up quite as much. I like to look smart and tidy if I know I’m going to play with someone, or if it’s a specific roleplay then i’m happy to dress in character like I’ve done the evil nurse thing for example, and I like to make the effort for events of course. I’ve never been to a kink event as either dom or sub where I haven’t dressed up since to me it’s part of the whole ‘kink in public’ experience and I like the clothes and when I’m at events I want to feel completely different to the person I feel like when I’m sat in my office at work.
I have to say though, for playing at home as Mrs Feendish I don’t dress up in kink gear every time. It just seems unnecessary to me. I want the people I play with to be attracted to me regardless of what I’m wearing since I plan to do more with their mind and their adrenaline than their eyes. Or at least the visual stuff that they should be concerned with is what it appears is going to happen next, not how I look. So I try to go sort of formal ish and sexy rather than full on fetish. Probably I don’t always get that right especially when I get fed up of high heels half way through and sneak them off whilst they’re blindfolded (ssshhhh) To me though getting the person I’m playing with to feel right is more important than that bit. I want them to get the best out of it that they can and to be relaxed around me. I don’t want to come across or look like some sort of egotistical super bitch. At least, not until my victim is safely restrained and unable to escape 😉
I suppose to a certain extent I’m still finding out what works and what doesn’t, and also well, it’s not the same for everyone either.
I had a lovely play with Molly a few weeks ago where I’d just been cooked a meal, ran a bath, and then forced her to torture herself with stuff I handed her whilst I sat on the sofa in my dressing gown watching old Audrey Hepburn films. To be honest that was no less erotic than being head to toe in latex and sweltering in the playroom, just different that’s all, and not the kind of thing you probably see on the websites of those dominatrixes with the uber reputations.
Honestly I couldn’t keep up that level of ego and show all the time, I like to be just me , no matter how that is packaged.