Lately this girl has perhaps been doing as much as a domme as a sub. Sub and masochist to Grimly, but evil sadistic bitch to others 😉
Its giving her a bit of quandary. Whether to, well continue writing EVERYTHING kink she does here or whether to start a separate ‘dominant’ blog for that stuff? Or, to keep everything here but write dominant ish posts in the first person rather than the third person? Or as a secondary author? What are your thoughts and ideas on this?
The thing is as at stands this girl has many facets to her personality – the submissive, the masochist, the dominant, the sadist, the wife, the lover, the friend, the colleague. It’s all sort of part and parcel of her character that these roles swap about with each other and sometimes one or two are more predominant than the others. Lately work has taken over all of the other roles way too much. It got so bad that the other night this girl somehow made Grimly have a nightmare about working for her and her yelling at him for not knowing how to do the job right. Poor Grimly – he work up in a cold sweat! It’s kind of scary when work influences the dreams of a partner let alone your own dreams/nightmares!
This girl cannot wait for a holiday! She has a few hours holiday this afternoon to get ready to go to the theatre tonight (more on that in the next post)
Anyway, throughout seven (ish) years of blogging this girl has tried to keep things clear and she just wants to avoid them getting muddled by crossing roles over. Unless , well, people don’t mind. This girl sometimes wonders too as to whether her dominant characteristics are sort of in a way submissive in that she tends to try to give the person she’s topping/dominating the experience they want. Though it is nice if the experience they want is to suffer in pain and pleasure at her hands 🙂
This girl has said it previously but every experience she has whether it be as dom or sub or masochist or sadist adds to the adventure and potentially improves it for the next time. This girl would like to think she doesn’t make too many mistakes and those that she does make she learns from. For that reason she’s thinking she will just keep all her posts about her various experiences here , but what do readers think?
What would you prefer?