Shopping therapy Sunday #7 : Extreme Restraints

This is the seventh post in a  series on various kink retail experiences this girl has had. This series of posts are based on personal experience and are not sponsored reviews, she has not received any money or free products based on her comments. This post is the LAST regular weekly one though there will be other posts in this series on a more random basis.

Hopefully this series might introduce you to some new items and websites you might not have seen before or give you confidence to go ahead with a purchase. Anyway hopefully you will enjoy! If you wish to participate and post in Shopping therapy Sunday yourself then just leave a comment with a link or drop an email :)

Shop : Extreme Restraints
Located in : USA
Available to visit in person : No shop premises however present at some events, this girl thinks she remembers seeing them at Folsom for instance.
Language :  English :  items priced in a number of currencies

xtreme restraints

Site layout : Easy to navigate, products categorised by type and sections for sale items and new items too.
Items available : All manner of sex toys right up to fuck machines, wide assortment of bondage gear including armbinders and straight jackets, items to cater for most kinks – very good range.
Pricing : a range, some things are reasonable some things are more high-end.
Ordering :shopping cart system and payments methods include credit and debit card. You can set up an account and get updates and details of special offers.
Communication : Friendly and efficient.
Postage : For what this girl has purchased the postage was reasonable but she got done at this end by customs 😦 unfortunately that’s a gamble with buying overseas!

What this girl bought : anal hook, inflatable enema plug, nipple bullets (though these have been modified by Grimly!)

When this girl bought the anal hook she had lusted after one for quite a while. She bought it from extreme restraints since the quality looked good and at the time they were the main place selling them.


There are now loads of other places selling them including ebay, would the quality be the same though – hard to know. This girl really likes the hook though and it’s always fun since its one of those kind of toys that doesn’t get used often so it adds an interesting extra dimension when it is.

It’s safe to say yes, this girl perhaps does have an anal fetish of sorts, its like one of those things that she enjoys but gets all uncomfortable and ‘british’ about when it’s happening 😉


Of course the typical thing to do with an anal hook is to tie the end either to the hair or to something up high. However, Grimly being Grimly usually adds extras as well. For instance on this occasion he used it as an electrode, which was umm, interesting.

ass hook 4

At the same time this girl also bought an inflatable enema plug. Again it was one of those toys that sort of the idea of it turned her on but that practice sort of was a bit scary! Though it is a fun toy to have. Given this girl does have a medical fetish sometimes involving enemas in play is fun though also pretty humiliating at the time. Humiliating and yet rather erotic too.


To be honest this girl could perhaps have bought what she got from extreme restraints somewhere more locally, but they have such a good range of things and known for their quality that this is why she bought these things there. However, being stung about a further £30 on VAT and customs was irritating and sort of has put her off using US sellers a little.

Not completely off to the point that she wouldn’t , but, being a yorkshire lass in Scotland the possibility of hidden extra costs is not nice . It isn’t their fault though, it’s the problem of living on a little island!

If you have had experience of this site or their products and want to leave a comment (good or bad – provided it can be supported) please do so .

This is the last of this series for a while, but it’ll be back occasionally 🙂

5 thoughts on “Shopping therapy Sunday #7 : Extreme Restraints

  1. I’ve bought a few things from Extreme Restraints over the past couple of years, just due to the fact that even though getting them shipped from the US can be a bit expensive, it’s still cheaper than buying the same item here in Australia. As much as I’d like to buy locally, price matters at times. Means I can buy more expensive toys otherwise.

    I’ve bought the total sensory deprivation hood, locking arm splints, posture collar, and some zeus electrosex gear from them in the past, and have been satisfied with all of them. I wear my sensory deprivation hood generally a couple of hours each week, just to space out and relax and ignore everything else, the splints haven’t gotten much use but they have been fun, and I love the posture collar. The zeus gear, although on the cheap side, has been quite entertaining and has made me seriously consider upgrading to some higher quality E-Stim Systems gear.

    I’ve also bought leather cuffs, other collars, anal toys etc from them and have generally been happy, though the leather cuffs I got were too large and couldn’t be tightened up enough – for the wrist cuffs anyway.

    The only gripe I have with them is the cost of shipping, because I know it doesn’t cost anywhere near that much to get something from the US to Australia in the short period of time having ordered stuff from Mr S Leather and the gear rocking up incredibly quickly and cheaper. And if you don’t go the fast shipping from them, you tend to wonder if it’s ever going to show up.

    They do have a bit of a rep for ripping off other companies designs, but that happens anyway nowadays. 😐

  2. Sir bought that exact anal hook awhile ago for Us. I was extremely new at kink at the time and wondered what was inside the package that was so heavy so I asked him if I could open it. I was so happy he said yes! I took it out of the package and thought what is this thing, a meat hook? Then I read the label, “anal hook” and died from embarrassment and thought it goes where!? I couldn’t text him fast enough protesting and sputtering my objections. Little did I know it would become one of my favorite toys he has acquired. In fact, I got to enjoy it just yesterday, :).

  3. The Half heard, thanks for your really useful comment. I forgot how useful some of the american companies are to you southern hemisphere folks! The only kink website i know of in australia is the water hole are there any others?

    bonimiss, you’re hooked too then 😉

    Thanks both for your comments.

  4. Have not heard of the water hole but I buy a fair bit of stuff from Black Rabbit Premium Leather as they are reasonably priced all things considered.

    And for latex there is vlatex who make some nice items. My hood in my picture is from them.

    Might have to order an anal hook now though. 🙂

  5. they are specialist in ponyplay stuff, i haven’t bought anything from there just i know about it because of being into ponyplay. I looked up vlatex, i love the mermaid idea! Thats on my wish list now 😉

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