Islv wrote :
“As these things happen I was thinking of your blog in the wee small hours. I am a habitual bad sleeper and have been since before I was 10. I think the bad sleep came before the BDSM fantasies but it certainly creates the space for them even though learning to sleep hooded helps the sleeplessness a bit.
I was thinking to myself about bondage in spreader bars and wondered if a particular scenario has been discussed by your blog or experienced by yourself.
It would require the subject to lie flat out, probably on their back (for imaginations sake) in the spread angle position. Rigid spreaders would then be attached to cuffs
ankle to ankle
ankle to wrist
wrist to neck
neck to wrist
wrist to ankle
This would hold the subject totally fixed in the spreadeagle ready for play.
If you feel you can add anything to the thought, it would be interesting to get your take on it. I imagine it as something whose capacity to leave me all of humiliated, aroused and helpless if I was the subject would be immense”
In the picture this girl is attached to a yoke i.e. bar with neck and wrist restraints built into it, a spreader bar and two vertical bars completing the square. The hood she is wearing has nose holes only and once all fixed down she couldn’t see or work out what Grimly was doing until it was happening.
To be honest this particular rig probably didn’t have that much advantage over being tied to the bed posts since it was done quite quickly but it felt much firmer and gave her less ability to wriggle around since she couldn’t block anything Grimly wanted to do to her and she couldn’t try and position herself more to one side of the bed than any other. She was totally fixed in place until he unhooked it all.
As bondage goes though it could do with a few more finishing touches, perhaps built in waist and breast restraining bars, perhaps a bit to hold down a vibrator, perhaps the ability to be suspended and still rigid? It’s amazing actually how a simple idea can spiral out of control in the imagination 😉 Spreader bars aren’t actually hard (or expensive) to make this girl will need to get Grimly to do a basic how-to on that at some point.
The problem is this girl has a man who can make those things happen. Oh yes that is the problem she has most definitely made her bed there 😉
Sometimes that is a bit of a problem. She’ll suggest things to him that might be fun to do or things for him to make and then it happens and its too late but to do anything other than accept it. She asked for it right?
Oh but you know its not a complaint! If there ever was anyone that deserved what was coming to them then its this girl 😉 Like you know, provided those things involve bondage and torture and stuff like that.