Not always black and white

The picture shows this girl wearing a white catsuit and hood made by her friend TLC designs and also a corset and matching neck corset made by fancywearusa.

The corset and neckcorset are a particular ensemble that looks pretty good but this girl has very black and white feelings about it. She hates how it feels but loves how it looks. It is the most uncomfortable outfit she owns. Perhaps she’s having a bit of a whinge here but with a neck corset so extreme its difficult to relax into a session. Whilst hoods and masks generally enhance a session for this girl, this thing destroys it. Her head can’t think of anything else other than wanting it off.

Obviously it doesn’t help having a dom that loves neck corsets! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Most types of play and most sessions are not as black and white as that. There are very few things that this girl can categorically say that she hates. ย Offhand she can really only think of the cattle prod that she really really hates.

There are a lot of things that she doesn’t like , such as the tower of pain (nipple torture device), inflatable plugs, dribbly gags and the control belt, but even those used when her head’s in the right space can end up being enjoyable. Well enjoyable is not the right word, perhaps the right word is perhaps satisfying, you know, from a masochist point of view. Sort of she hates the idea of it, and hates it happening, and it hurts, but it totally and ย utterly turns her on.

That’s the thing with BDSM is it is all really shades of gray. Even something enjoyable that is enjoyable 99 times out of 100 just once could be a torture. The eroscilator for instance can easily be a torture when it’s used to excess the same with the fuck machine. This girl would never really complain about being forced to orgasm again and again but sometimes there can be times where she pretty much has to beg him to stop. There is such a thing as overkill whether he knows it or not ๐Ÿ˜‰

So much in kink depends how you feel on the day, what mood you are in, and obviously that of your partner as well, euphoria one day can be torture the next. Sometimes it shades of grey rather than black and white.

Perhaps not so much a problem for a masochist ๐Ÿ˜‰

OH AND HAPPY ST PATRICKS DAY

11 thoughts on “Not always black and white

  1. Maybe a good gag under that will help mute the whinings
    YOu should be about the wearing of the green today!

  2. Happy St. Patties Day!

    I agree whole heartedly, but if you think about it, some of the most intense scenes I’ve had were in they gray area! Its unnatural how Doms can make something oh so yummy one minute and the next oh so ouchie! ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. Tim who asked you lol. no..not wearing green though i did kiss the blarney stone a few days before st paddys last year!

    hisgirl, i agree…..where do doms get their talents…maybe they get told at school when us girls have those talks about periods lol.

  4. This is random shy fan: just giving myself a different name!!! ๐Ÿ™‚ I have another question but for this girl this time! :)how has you pain tolerance been affected sense you began BDSM? Also when you first met grimly, if he were to put you through a session like the ones you can stand now, how much would your pain and pleasure be different than now? I’m curious cuz I’m sorta a newbe at BDSM and I find some stuff more pain then pleasure of what my master puts me in.. I want to know if that will change over time? ๐Ÿ˜€ lemme know if you need clarification on anything! I feel I don’t make sense ever to myself!!

  5. I have to admit that the idea of a corset/neck corset is my idea of heaven…… must invest…. and soon ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. I love corsets… i have 3 of my own ๐Ÿ™‚ Love collars..even more so posture collars… i guess the neck corset is just a combination of luvs ๐Ÿ™‚ And you are right… it looks gorgeous on you ๐Ÿ˜€

  7. i like corsets too i have a lot of those but probably dont wear them enough! Posture collars i like the love of but they annoy me to wear lol…Grimly loves them of course!

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