The picture shows this girl wearing a white catsuit and hood made by her friend TLC designs and also a corset and matching neck corset made by fancywearusa.
The corset and neckcorset are a particular ensemble that looks pretty good but this girl has very black and white feelings about it. She hates how it feels but loves how it looks. It is the most uncomfortable outfit she owns. Perhaps she’s having a bit of a whinge here but with a neck corset so extreme its difficult to relax into a session. Whilst hoods and masks generally enhance a session for this girl, this thing destroys it. Her head can’t think of anything else other than wanting it off.
Obviously it doesn’t help having a dom that loves neck corsets! 😉
Most types of play and most sessions are not as black and white as that. There are very few things that this girl can categorically say that she hates. Offhand she can really only think of the cattle prod that she really really hates.
There are a lot of things that she doesn’t like , such as the tower of pain (nipple torture device), inflatable plugs, dribbly gags and the control belt, but even those used when her head’s in the right space can end up being enjoyable. Well enjoyable is not the right word, perhaps the right word is perhaps satisfying, you know, from a masochist point of view. Sort of she hates the idea of it, and hates it happening, and it hurts, but it totally and utterly turns her on.
That’s the thing with BDSM is it is all really shades of gray. Even something enjoyable that is enjoyable 99 times out of 100 just once could be a torture. The eroscilator for instance can easily be a torture when it’s used to excess the same with the fuck machine. This girl would never really complain about being forced to orgasm again and again but sometimes there can be times where she pretty much has to beg him to stop. There is such a thing as overkill whether he knows it or not 😉
So much in kink depends how you feel on the day, what mood you are in, and obviously that of your partner as well, euphoria one day can be torture the next. Sometimes it shades of grey rather than black and white.
Perhaps not so much a problem for a masochist 😉
OH AND HAPPY ST PATRICKS DAY