‘The most important thing is pleasing Master’s cock’

This girl gets really irritated by submissives that spout this nonsense, or things like ‘Master’s cock is the centre of my universe’ and other such completely ridiculous diatribes. This girl isn’t saying that its bad to want to enjoy his cock and want to pleasure it (gosh far from it, of course it can be a lot of fun) …but…it shouldn’t be the main focus or point to the whole business.

Submission shouldn’t be centered around a man’s cock but on his mind. At least, that is this girl’s line of thought, as always D/s is a completely subjective experience so this girl is not forcing you to agree. Though, its completely how things are in her relationship with Grimly his cock is not the centre of her submission, or of his dominance.

The last post was about how this girl’s orgasms feature quite a lot in play, mainly because Grimly has the ability to give her as many as his sadistic generosity dictates. A lot of the stuff Grimly does to this girl involves relatively extreme bondage and stimulation, so quite often it builds up towards orgasm for her, and dependant on his mood will depend on how long he keeps her hovering on the brink, and then when he finally does let her burst, how many times will it keep going…thats the thing…when you have a man that can control your orgasms quite completely it can become a torture when he inflicts too many. Yes, there is such a thing as too many!

Its not usual that he will get undressed himself in the playroom. BDSM for Grimly seems a more cerebral experience. Oh sure he gets turned on and sometimes the sex and all that comes later, but it doesn’t often cross into ‘torture time’ that often. It’s great when it does, but its not a regular occurence. Its like something about him that says he is control of this girl,and of himself as well. He doesn’t need to rip his trousers off and fill her with sticky stuff at the first sign of arousal!

Sometimes it makes this girl feel a bit animalistic, a bit of a creature, his pet even in that what happens to her is so much more physical than what happens to him. What happens to her physically is such a huge part of her BDSM. It might be that she’s strapped down, and forced to drool and be completely dripping with horniness whilst being tortured and electrocuted and all manner of other things whilst he remains quite cool and collected with just that sort of sadistic look about his face. He gets off on the control and the sadism, and on her reaction to his devious imagination. Its how it works. Her body, his mind.

So, its one of those reasons that you’ll never see a picture of this girl sucking his cock. Its not what this particular D/s relationship is about, sure it happens quite a lot but its not a ‘key activity’ as it is some relationships and its certainly not a daily ‘slave duty’.

This girl could be wrong, but it has always appeared that her Master gets off more on what he is doing to her than on his own orgasm or physical pleasure. So in a way thats a lucky situation to be in. To have a dom that wants to do everything in his power to give her the experience she wants, but then, its what he wants as well. It also means that when he does want her to pleasure him, because its not a daily duty, or a chore, that its actually a treat and she really wants to do her best to get him aroused and stimulated.

What pleases Grimly the most though is being able to do what he does. To come up with new ideas, and be able to have someone to experiment on. So this girl is a bit of a guinea pig. Being a sadistic genius is what Grimly needs to be. He’s not a man that needs to have daily blow jobs, or daily sex even to get stimulation. He gets stimulated in so many other imaginative ways, by being sadistic and by being an evil controlling bastard and by having a girl who loves that.

Possibly the state of affairs wouldn’t work for everyone, but this girl is lucky that she has someone that stimulates her body and her imagination and that brings out the masochistic submissive creature within her.

The most important thing in all of that is not his cock. Your ability to suck cock does not make you a good submissive. It just makes you a good fellatio artist.

The most important thing is his mind, his fantasies, his imagination and his devious creativity. Her ability to be compatible with that is what makes this girl the right submissive for Grimly.

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