Chastity. This girl has written about it before. Why is it so annoying and yet a turn on?
It is always one of these weird things why on earth do people get turned on by being denied something? Human nature? To want what you can’t have?
Last night this girl’s Master put her in the chastity belt (minus the electro-device thankfully!) and told her that she would be wearing it all night and that if she did not please him then she would be wearing it all the next day too. It is difficult to describe how frustrating it is to be sexually pleasing and erotic with your partner whilst you can’t receive everything you might desire back, though if you have experienced this you will know. More frustrating for this girl though is knowing that the task in itself is impossible that nothing she can do will make him orgasm and break his own self control! Bastard!
The only way forward therefore is to put in effort to try and see if he will either orgasm or give in and take the belt off this girl and fuck her if she seduces and arouses him enough but then really the game would be over if that were to happen and sometimes he might be merciful in rewarding effort and not just rewarding accomplishment.
This girl doesnt think she would like to have a Dom that *always* set impossible tasks or gave her stringent rules to live by that she would mess up. She thinks sometimes though the sadist in him likes to see her frustration and torment in trying to achieve something that is difficult, but then, her sadist turns her on so this girl can survive that 🙂 Is she lucky or unlucky though that he can still make her orgasm without touching her?
Control someone sexually and you can control them in most ways.
This girl sometimes used to wonder about male submisisves. How they (generalisation but that fits many) seem to have this need for the end result to be relief and how this sometimes appears to be a need in their play. But then really is female submission any different? Is this girl’s submission any different? Not really.
If you have someone who turns you on as much as that, if the play is effective and the control is effective then you need to explode some way or other eventually. You cant maintain that level of arousal without breaking sooner or later but the problem is he has the detonator 😉
Until someone controls your sexual needs as much as this you dont believe why someone else under control would do anything to please their Dominant just for the sake to see whether or not they will be rewarded by their Dominants happiness and mercy. But really sexual needs and submissive (or dominant) needs are intertwined.
Its not all about sex of course, or orgams or physical stimulation they just happen to be some of the fun parts which demonstrate the physical element of the power exchange though the mental and emotional elements are just as strong if not stronger.