This girl’s Master has always joked that eventually he would like to be able to have a ‘remote controlled subbie’ but this girl has noted there is as difference between being controlled by a remote control that can do something to you immediately and being controlled when you dom is in a bloody remote area and not near you!
This girl’s Master has several remote devices for controlling this girl’s behaviour both at home and away from home .Mainly the control belt (which is a chastity belt style device with a built in electric shock device above the clit), the e-stim remote (which can work with most electro play plugs and things) and then various remote vibrators and plugs. Now, it is relatively easy when this girl is wired up to such devices to be obedient. It is always easier to be obedient if the penalty for not being so is immediate pain. What a suprise!
There is something particularly erotic about the control electro-play gives whether it be from a remote unit or a plugged in one. Its really the feeling that for no more effort on his part then the press of a button he can control the amount of pain or pleasure this girl receives and whether it is one or the other or both together. Its the look on his face too when he’s getting to decide that. Sadism or love this girl isnt sure! Weird how it sometimes looks as though it can be both this girl supposes though that it is a given when you are hurting someone you care about but giving them exactly what you both desire at the same time. Of course it helps too that this girl likes the sensation of how it feels to her as well.
Remote control long distance is not so easy. Its easy for this girl to obey her Dom when he is with her but when he’s not its sometimes harder for her to remember her role. Ok so its not so important in her and her Dom’s relationship per say, as generally speaking their BDSM happens just in person when they are together but sometimes this girl thinks gets confused.
Sometimes she wants to feel more controlled, she wants to feel like she is pleasing him more of the time, by doing things that would be please him and so on and so forth and wants to feel like he has more input into what she is doing but then she thinks that is just because she just wants to feel as close to him as possible when it cannot be in the flesh.
However at other times she doesnt want the control . Sometimes she rebels against it sometime she just wants to do what she wants when she wants.
Really this girl thinks the solution is to try and keep what makes him happy at the back of her mind when she is thinking about how to approach things and if she does that she doenst need him to ‘actively’ control her because he’ll be happy with how she is behaving anyway, but then, sometimes a little coercion is fun 🙂 This girl never wants it to be 24/7 or anything but she just wants to do whats right by him is that slavery, or submission, or is that just love and not really anything kinkier than that?