Shopping therapy Sunday #9 : Locked for Infinity

This is the ninth post in a  series on various kink retail experiences this girl has had. Hopefully this girl’s fans will find this post particularly interesting!!

DISCLAIMER : This post is slightly different to regular Shopping therapy Sundays since it is to celebrate the launch of a new kinky retail venture that is very close to this girl’s heart ;)

This series of posts is a regular but random feature, so watch this space for more fun places to buy kink.

Hopefully this series might introduce you to some new items and websites you might not have seen before or give you confidence to go ahead with a purchase. Anyway hopefully you will enjoy!

Shop : Locked for Infinity
Located in : UK
Available to visit in person : No shop premises however present at fetish events in Scotland and other UK venues TBC.
Language :  English :  items priced in GBP.

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Site layout : Easy to navigate, products categorised by type as per above. Bespoke items also available – just ask! Strangely anything you’ve seen here is potentially possible ;)
Items available : High quality leather lockable made to measure bondage items – collars, cuffs, gags, harnesses, bespoke bondage ideas and impact toys including canes,paddles and tawses. Latex bondage items also soon to be available.
Pricing : Very reasonable and affordable given the quality and care put into the manufacture
Ordering :shopping cart system and payments by paypal. At present the website will only accept UK orders but if you are an overseas friend please contact Locked for Infinity for details of international ordering.
Communication : Friendly and efficient.
Postage :Very reasonable and very quick by royal mail recorded delivery.

What this girl bought:  Well, technically this girl hasn’t bought anything, but she’s paid plenty in other ways over the  years ;)

For many years this girl has been enjoying toys of the quality produced by Locked for Infinity. The reason for this is because the creative genius behind this new  retailer is none other than her husband Grimly Feendish! In the near future the website will also feature TLCdesigns latex items such as straightjackets and other latex bondage gear. It’s early days just now but hopefully it will become successful and give people the chance to buy some quality lovingly crafted items for an affordable price.

This girl first became interested in Grimly because of his ability to make things and how that meant his imagination could go from an idea to a project to a real thing to hold to an intense play session. He continually keeps coming up with new items and despicable devices to pleasure and torture her with, but why should she have all the fun? For a long time people have asked to have things made too, so now is your chance!

There are just about 30 items on the website just now but it will grow so watch this space or add locked4infinity to your fetlife friends!

At the moment there is also an introductory spring discount too !

Hopefully this girl and Grimly’s fans and followers will enjoy this latest development :)

E is for . . .

Grimly and this girl are just *slightly* behind with the alphabet series, but managed to have some fun last weekend! E is particularly so far one of this girl’s favourite letters can’t think why!! ;)

Anyway, as you may be able to work out from the picture E is for electrics (three different lots), the eroscillator and the ECG (heart rate monitor)

This girl will leave your imagination to fill in the details but being electrocuted to the beat of your own heart whilst being tormented? with one of probably the world’s most effective vibrators can make the heart beat get faster quite quickly!

Its a rather vicious cycle.

But nice all the same ;)

Heavy Metal

When this girl’s friend Henry was over from Canada last year he brought a few steel toys with him to show off to the locals, and had also already shown this girl and Grimly a lot of his inventions when they had visited Vancouver Island on honeymoon – such as this stand, this one, and this one, not to mention his suspension rigging in the cedars at Rubbert & Lady Melissa’s :)

Anyway Henry promised when he visited the UK last year that he would make this girl some stainless steel restraints, and a week or two back they turned up!

It was fun being measured for the restraints when he was here on the morning of his departure and was something to look forward to given thisgirl and Mrs Geetwo (who he’s also made some for – pictures here) were very sad to see him leave :(

Henry is one of those people that it is impossible not to take to instantly because he is just so friendly and down to earth and is one of those kind of friends that if you don’t see for a while when you do see them you feel like you’ve known them for ever and that they haven’t been at the other side of the planet after all. This girl feels the same way about Mr & Mrs JG Leathers and many other kinky friends who are too far away to see regularly such as her peanut butter hating belgian.

So, back to the steel. It seemed appropriate to try it out with latex, given this girl and Grimly do have this sort of tendency to be magpies over all that is shiny ;) Given the restraints are carefully engineered stainless steel they are incredibly heavy!

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Grimly used the wrist cuffs first, which lock on securely, and then added the collar, ankle cuffs and spreader bars that he has made to match. As a result it was quite difficult to move very far. Grimly as usual likes building bondage up in layers reducing mobility with each addition.

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The thing is though, he didn’t think just collar and cuffs and a bit of restraint was enough. So he also decided to add the spider gag and Axsmar nose hook. Just to make life you know, more interesting.

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Suck it and see

Recently this girl and Grimly got a new regular vac bed fixed up,however not everyone likes the fact that with regular vac beds the head is totally under since sometimes this causes funny sensations round the ears. Grimly ever the engineer, came up with a solution and alternative for that reason, and well also, just because ;)

The vac bed shown in this post is a modified latex sleep sack. Cosy, and snug and very shiny! The hood is separate not an attached one which means that different hoods or masks can be worn to create different effects and experiences :) This particular hood is one TLC made for this girl recently. It’s the first smoky latex this girl has had but she loves the colour.

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Anyone who has tried any kind of vac bed will know that once the air is sucked out it is impossible to move. However, Grimly being the master of bondage overkill strapped this girl down to the massage table for good measure and also added the new Canadian gas mask that has been recently acquired and a bubbler bottle to make breathing more ‘interesting’ and well, difficult.

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All in all it really was a successful experiment. This girl could feel the suction of the vacuum firmly round her body but at the same time her ears weren’t popping and there wasn’t the pressure round her head that sometimes is an unwanted side effect of the regular vac bed. However having said that, this girl likes BOTH and since she has both and room to keep both well it’s not really a problem anyway ;) This one is much easier to get into and out of too.

The best thing about a vac bed though is not just the feeling of being in your own rubber cocoon,but the amplified effect any touch has from the outside. Just a touch of the hand or the feeling of a vibrator or the sound of the water bubbling is increased almost ten fold. Well the rest perhaps can be left to the imagination ;)
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Sitting pretty

It’s been a while since Grimly has played with this girl in  the ‘chair’ but a couple of weeks back he decided to rig it up and give her a ride! She’d also got new ballet shoes and also a new latex hood with smoky face to try out so why not combine a few bits and pieces?

The chair is often referred to as a dentist -chair however really its not, Grimly has researched it and apparently the design was originally used for day surgery. Grimly however uses it for brainwashing, torture and elaborate sadistic genius. Not, probably what was originally intended but fun all the same!

For readers who haven’t read about it on older posts, the chair  has built in restraints, built in electrodes to allow remote connection to the ET312 electrical box, built in air supply and vacuum. Oh and a fuck machine ;)

Grimly has built different masks that can be used in combination with the chair including one specifically for brainwashing (with flashing led lights), one that allows the wearer to see themselves through video, and others that are just blacked out. Though its an evolving process. At the moment a friend of this girl and Grimly is working on hardware that enables the video in the video mask to do different special effects such as pixelating , time delay and different colour effects but more on that later – its still currently in R&D!

This time however, Grimly’s concentration was on the vacuum rigged up to her breast cups, and then he used vaginal electrodes to add further stimulation and also combined that with breath play and a blindfold to ensure this girl’s mind was just focussed on what he wanted it to be focussed on.

Whilst there are of course a limited number of configurations that are possible with the chair its usual that each time will still be slightly different since it depends on what equipment is used, what mood this girl is in, what she might be wearing (or not), how long it goes on for, the intensity, all sorts of variables that lead to different effects.

On this occasion particularly this girl felt very different at the end of the session to what she did at the start. Initially the vacuum on the breasts was very painful and it felt as though they were being sucked off but gradually as she became almost hypnotised with her own rhythmic and controlled breathing through the mask the suction felt more pleasurable, well you know, pleasurable pain rather than painful pain and she didn’t want it to stop! Its funny how when other things are added that things which hurt become more manageable and even desirable.

Obviously other things Grimly was doing to her also added to the experience so perhaps its not that unusual;)

Outstanding in the field

So these pictures are pretty much the last set this girl has not yet used from her honeymoon with Grimly. Spreading out the pictures over nine months has made the honeymoon feel as though it’s lasted a little longer and this girl has achieved her aim of spreading the pictures out until some of her friends she spent her honeymoon with arrived in the UK!

When she was in Vancouver Island at Cederbrae, she met steel engineer, Henry, who is now staying with her and Grimly in Scotland till mid week when JG Leathers and his wife arrive for onward travel to meet up with other friends down south for a sort of holiday and tour around the UK.  This girl and Grimly just took Henry to one of the local munches where he showed off some of his steel work however the stand pictured was much too large for the flight over!

It’s good actually that this girl and Grimly now have company because it means Grimly can STOP work on the playroom temporarily and chill out a little. He has been working so very hard. The place is nearly finished though, there still needs to be a floor covering laid and all the equipment put in place and a few more coats of paint but the building work has pretty much been all done.

It’s really good having so many friends that have engineering and creative skills to get ideas from and help. This girl has been inspired a lot by Henry’s designs and also that of JG Leathers, and Grimly , well he is inspired by pretty much everything!

This type of stand is perhaps too large for the playroom but it does have similarities with the subby stand Grimly built a few years ago which could be modified in a few similar (but smaller) ways. The stand is a sort of J saddle shape so it’s not majorly uncomfortable but it does feel odd! Though that’s the point of bondage perhaps ;) The stand Henry made can  actually now rotate too, amongst other interesting developments for which you might need to use your imagination. Yes. THOSE sorts of developments!

This girl has always liked the idea of bondage for immobile display, being exposed, and unable to do anything to prevent what might happen next. Though having her feet off the ground is quite an unusual sensation, especially when it’s not because of suspension. Unfortunately there are just too many vanilla things to bring her back down to earth so it’s just one of those things that needs to be enjoyed during the moment of sensational escapism :)

Dangerous minds

Grimly made this girl a new head harness recently, pictured below. It does also have different mouth and eye attachments that can be used, but this girl quite likes the ones in this picture as they are different to any head mask she’s had before and it all padlocks together at the back.

Ok so the mouth attachment is a bit hannibalesque. Quite ironic really as there is absolutely nothing dangerous about this girl especially not when she’s tied up and can’t move anyway! What could a sadist find dangerous about a harmless little masochist?

Well Grimly’s answer for choosing to make this type of attachment was because he can. ;)

The eye mask is probably the most interesting part of the mask for this girl. She’s not had a pepperpot hood or mask before and it presents a very strange view of what is going on. The way to explain it is a bit like a kaleidoscope what she can see is very distorted and patchy and fractionated.

This girl likes hoods and masks that have total blackout as it’s easy then for physical sensations to take over what the mind is thinking about as well as to enjoy the apprehension and lack of knowledge as to what is going on. However there is still something much trippier about a restricted view as opposed to no view at all. What she sees is exactly what he wants to see. He wants her to see a bit, enough for her to realize what is going to happen but for her eyes to be still in bondage and controlled. Really another way of him controlling what her mind processes.

Perhaps that would be dangerous if she didn’t want him in her head, but then if this girl did not want Grimly in her head he wouldn’t be able to get in there in the first place.

For all this stuff to work you need really to at least part way want it, or think you want it, or at least be curious about it.

Curiosity, thats the dangerous bit right there ;)

Weirdness

This girl found this quote this morning :-

“We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love”  Author unknown

Whilst this girl has been stressing about her hair and her dress and all manner of little details , Grimly has been making his own wedding accessories for her. Well for the honeymoon anyway! She’s since got boots to go with it too!

What is weird is that men don’t get stressed to half the same extent about things!

In a way this girl’s relationship with Grimly is a little quirky, or at least it was begin with. She would never have met him or known who he was if it wasn’t for his ability to be imaginative and to be able to build all these weird and wonderful things.

But yes there is a girl who needs to love a man like that ;) Like, you know, not the only reason, but one of them.

Master craftsmen

This girl has always been interested in people who can make ideas come alive from nothing but their imagination or from a vague description of an idea. Granted Grimly’s talents are what attracted her to him.

This girl thinks in part it may have something to do with her Dad. Whilst her parents weren’t poor they weren’t able to justify spending lots of money on toys either. So her Noahs ark, her train set and her swing were all home made and she had lots of things made out of painted cardboard boxes too.

She was at someone elses birthday party and they had a rocking horse so she asked for one of those and it was handmade too.

Part of the attraction of home made toys both non kink and kink is the talent of the maker but it is also knowing the love and thought that goes into it and also for the creator it must also involve seeing the reaction of how it is viewed or received.

So this girl is quite lucky that she found Grimly who has the talent for making things as well. Since custom made things fit perfectly and have that thought process behind them. For this girl stuff her Master has made mean more to her than bought things and probably the reason why she prefers her leather collar to the eternity one.

This girl is lucky in knowing other talented people as well including tlcwho made the beanie hood pictured below with the harness Grimly made. The latex wear tlc makes is very good and fits skin tight.
This girl had wanted a latex beanie for a while and its worked out great though she wasn’t too impressed when Grimly put a neck corset over it as well!

Recently this girl has been talking to
fetish leather crafter who is in the early stages of designing and making something for her. The design process fascinates this girl especially as there is the added difficulty of the atlantic in the middle so no more to go on than rough ideas sketches and measurements but she is more than confidant it will be something very special. So watch this space!

You’ve made your bed now lie in it!

Islv wrote :

“As these things happen I was thinking of your blog in the wee small hours. I am a habitual bad sleeper and have been since before I was 10. I think the bad sleep came before the BDSM fantasies but it certainly creates the space for them even though learning to sleep hooded helps the sleeplessness a bit.

I was thinking to myself about bondage in spreader bars and wondered if a particular scenario has been discussed by your blog or experienced by yourself.

It would require the subject to lie flat out, probably on their back (for imaginations sake) in the spread angle position. Rigid spreaders would then be attached to cuffs
ankle to ankle
ankle to wrist
wrist to neck
neck to wrist
wrist to ankle

This would hold the subject totally fixed in the spreadeagle ready for play.

If you feel you can add anything to the thought, it would be interesting to get your take on it. I imagine it as something whose capacity to leave me all of humiliated, aroused and helpless if I was the subject would be immense”

In the picture this girl is attached to a yoke i.e. bar with neck and wrist restraints built into it, a spreader bar and two vertical bars completing the square. The hood she is wearing has nose holes only and once all fixed down she couldn’t see or work out what Grimly was doing until it was happening.

To be honest this particular rig probably didn’t have that much advantage over being tied to the bed posts since it was done quite quickly but it felt much firmer and gave her less ability to wriggle around since she couldn’t block anything Grimly wanted to do to her and she couldn’t try and position herself more to one side of the bed than any other. She was totally fixed in place until he unhooked it all.

As bondage goes though it could do with a few more finishing touches, perhaps  built in waist and breast restraining bars, perhaps a bit to hold down a vibrator, perhaps the ability to be suspended and still rigid? It’s amazing actually how a simple idea can spiral out of control in the imagination ;) Spreader bars aren’t actually hard (or expensive) to make this girl will need to get Grimly to do a basic how-to on that at some point.

The problem is this girl has a man who can make those things happen. Oh yes that is the problem she has most definitely made her bed there ;)

Sometimes that is a bit of a problem. She’ll suggest things to him that might be fun to do or things for him to make and then it happens and its too late but to do anything other than accept it. She asked for it right?

Oh but you know its not a complaint! If there ever was anyone that deserved what was coming to them then its this girl ;) Like you know, provided those things involve bondage and torture and stuff like that.