Hi and thanks for stumbling across my blog, I hope you’ve found it interesting! I hope it reflects what i am, someone who enjoys what they do and is doing it in a completely healthy and adventurous way!
This girl is just one of a tonne of people into BDSM – or bondage, dominance, submission and masochism. I’ve been into BDSM about five years now and explored quite a lot within that time!.
My main interests in BDSM are electrics, suspension, ponyplay, latex,breath play, medical play and bondage. Although I am pretty openminded and open to trying new things. I’m 28 and based in the northern reaches of the UK.
I am lucky really in that I have a great Master who I love and we have now been together for around three years We met after I read a post of his on IC which I found intriguing, we got chatting and then met up at a munch. For a while we had a play thing going on which began after my first visit and then developed into a full blown D/s and loving relationship and this blog should record how that has developed and matured over time. I became his slave and he collared me in June 2007. We enjoy a deep and meaningful M/s relationship pivoted around the fact that he took control and continues to maintain it.
I am happy and proud that I am a submisisive and a masochist. For a while i wasnt comfortable with my submission but my blog will reflect how i have gained more confidence with it and a lot of the hangups I had were because of a past fucked up relationship.
My Master is very imaginative and creative and wicked but with a good sense of humour at the same time! He makes a lot of his own equipment and thats mostly what you see here. We dont make equipment for sale though, just unique bespoke things for ourselves and sometimes for friends. His most intriguing project to date has been a dentist chair with built in electrics, restraints, and breath control. A look at the gallery page should give a good insight of the insanity that goes on here!
I’m wanting to use this facility to keep track of thoughts and experiences and events and hope you enjoy what I’ve written – please feel free to leave comments or get in touch to discuss anything i’ve commented on.
You’ll notice my posts are written third person, I dont speak like that day to day of course, but for writing a blog it helps me reflect on the experience and be sort of on the outside looking in and the inside looking out. I dont write that way elsewhere i.e on comments or in person its just for the blog and its kind of stuck here because he likes it.
Well all this makes sense to me! I am not completely insane…well…not yet!
Some of the things we do might look a bit insane and a bit bizarre but we have researched these activities and conduct them with as much care and attention to safety as to detail. I love what I do and would not stop doing it for the world!
If you’ve liked what I’ve written in my blog, or have questions or want to share ideas please feel free to get in touch using the form below. If you want to link to me thats fine, banner below if you want to use!

Best wishes
This Girl