Welcome, my friends, to the fifth annual Love Our Lurkers Day organised by Bonnie over at My Bottom Smarts.
This is our community’s opportunity to share the love with our silent readers. I know from my statistics that there are thousands of readers of this blog who have never left a comment. If this describes you, then today is your day.
While we may not see your face or read your words, we know you’re out there. Even in silence, your return visits provide a gentle affirmation for which I thank you.
I would like to invite you to leave a comment below. It can be as long or short as you choose. You can use a fake name or no name at all. What’s important is that you poke your head up just far enough that we might see you.
If you feel chatty, please feel free to tell me how I might make this blog more interesting, more useful, more attractive, more spanky, or more fun. I’m always in the market for great new ideas. If a simple hello is enough for you, I’ll welcome that as well.
In any case, I look forward to meeting you! If this is your first time here due to following a link from love our lurkers day please feel free to have a nose around at my posts and pictures my blog is mostly about BDSM and my sufferings at the hands of a very demented but creative madman!
If you are a blogger and want to participate in Love our Lurkers day drop Bonnie an e-mail once your post (similar to this one) is up.
Thank you for supporting my blog, it means a lot. This also happens to my 500th post and this week has seen my 2 millionth page view. Thank you so much for supporting what started off as just thoughts I wanted to write down to share with Grimly that i couldn’t articulate to him verbally….
So thanks, and please feel free to say hello. Today’s your day to do it if you haven’t before! 
Here’s a list of those who have participated and who also love their lurkers, check some out there may be plenty that interests you :-
Here’s a running list of participating blogs:
showing some love and delurking…
ive been here for quite a bit dont comment much. but love learning about new stuff you describe and the pictures.
for a semi vanilla girl. its quite the experience
keep up with the awesome blog
hugs!
Hello! I’m not sure if I’ve delurked here before or not…but your journal is on my blogroll, and I’m always checking to see if you’ve made any updates.
Your blog is so wonderful, I just love it! You speak with a great honesty…and it’s educational, and informative, and thoughtful…it’s great. Plus who wouldn’t love the many pictures?? You’re very pretty =)
Thank you for keeping your journal alive and active for people to view and enjoy. It makes me think, laugh, be hopeful, and many other things. Your openness and excitement about how you live the lifestyle makes me more confident about trying more methods of play and new toys…not that I’ll ever have the type of collection that YOU get to experience, but a girl can wish =)
Happy LOL Day. First time here and I like what I see.
Hi I think your blog is good to read with your honest opinions. You are doing a fine job with your blog. Good luck with your future.
delurks
Keep up the good work!
Long time lurker, first time poster
We’ve followed your blog for awhile, to the point of “Oh, did you see the latest thisgirl post today?” is a normal conversation topic at home. The reality of your exploration with Grimly, JG and others in this world has been a joy to follow. Keep up the great posts, cheers!
Another terrific milestone for you TG. There can’t be too many blogs which have run for so long and still managed to keep up such an interest and following.
I love your blog, I can’t think of anything to improve on it really, although there are days that I wonder what Grimly’s take on things are…
Oh, well, I suppose more pics would always be welcome
xxx
Reading since about a month (and not stopping anytime soon), I would like to thank you for sharing your experiences.
Your writing style is quite enjoyable, your photos lovely and it certainly is nice to see two people who don’t forget to have fun when doing bdsm!
Hello;
So to take advantadge of lurking…………………..
I stumbled upon this blog via my mobile during a bout of insomnia. more so amazing as i’m working in the middle east and most “adult themed” areas of the web are off limits unless you cheat and use a vpn.
I’ve really enjoyed reading your recent posts and a trawl through the archives and my wife (after 17 years ……we got hitched last month just thought I’d mention that in passing – and being separated by 2-3 months spells 3000+ miles does not help)and has suddenly awoken to all manner bdsm exploration – nothing too heavy as we are both on a voyage together (honeymoon in Abu Dhabi next week, should be captivating for both of us in various measures) – some of the situations you end up in with Grimly……..oh dear………but he seems to let out out eventually so there happy endings all round so to speak unless you are still gagged.
Look forwards to more of your musings and notice it’s a virtual torrent at present so visits are now almost becoming a daily event with my morning tea at work.
regards
DP
Happy LOL Day! L@@king in from out here somewhere!
So glad you keep this blog. So jealous of the great equipment Grimly makes. Keep on writing.
Oh dear, I’m not a lurker anymore…
Happy LOL Day! I come to perv the pictures, that is all.
But really, I have always enjoyed your open honest way you write.
Hi! I think I may have posted once before, but I do just love your blog. Our proclivities run similar and I absolutely adore hearing about how yours are playing out. Thanks for blogging about your life. As a blogger myself, I know that it isn’t easy keeping up with the writing, but we do all appreciate it when you do!
Hi thisgirl,
Happy LOL day! I’m a frequent visitor to your blog and always enjoy my visits here.
Hugs,
Hermione
TG, I look at your blog every day and always enjoy it. Very honest and open and so very sexy. Do please keep it up!
Phil
Just would like to say that I also lurk here!
From the other side of the big heringpond (aka the Netherlands) i haave to tell you that i thing you are great in the way you discribe your emotions that make ‘a few letters on a screen’ feel almost as a reallife film. Please go on this way.
Falcon
goin to buy a new keyboard now, some letters didnt do what i want them to do
Hi TG!
Thank you for being a member of our community and for participating in our annual LOL Day celebration. It looks as though you’ve wrangled a good collection of lurker comments. I wish you continued success with your blog and with all things.
Hugs,
Bonnie
Hello!
Not got a lot to say really, but yes, I’m a lurker. And now, I’m going back to doing just that.
Hi there, this is my first post here, i am a true lurker!! Happy LOL day! =)
Peace to you.
Happy LOL day!
Happy LOL day.
Prefectdt
Hello!
Great stuff… I actually ran across this site while looking for ideas for how to build something kinky I was making.
After seeing what you and Grimly do, I couldn’t help myself from returning at least once a week. You (thisgirl) for your thoughts, fantasies, rants, and wonderful experiences. It’s rare to see somebody so willing to share such intimate experiences with complete strangers like that. I’m also, of course, extremely fascinated with Grimly’s devious creations. They certainly brought me here, but it’s your writing that made me return. That said, sharing more technical details of some of his creations would be wonderful. I know, however, that a good magician never reveals all of his tricks.
It seems odd that you’re thanking us. It’s really us that should be thanking you. I know we all have a private life. I’m sure I speak for all of your readers when I say thanks for sacrificing some of your privacy for our benefit. You are truly an inspiration.
From a small voice in the silent majority,
Thank you!
P.S. While I’m here… you posted way back about a stand with some mechanism that prevented you from working your way back down. Still haven’t figured out how he did that… If either of you two could be so kind as to enlighten us a little, it would be appreciated here.
Well I was a lurker, but now Ive replied I guess I’m not. So does this mean I cant say thank you for Love Our Lukers day as now it doesnt apply to me? hmmmm…..
All I will say is you Blog that started me lurking then turned me into a fan of your work and writing. Fresh, inspiring and honest – you cant want for more than that.
I am a little bit late but I also wanted to say that I have been lurking for quite some time. I am just a little bit too shy to comment most of the times
Thank you all for the lovely comments there’s still time to delurk for anyone out there still hiding!
Guys what you have said has really overwhelmed me thanks for being so nice and making the effort to share your thoughts i’m really touched by a lot of your sentiments so thank you
Thanks for sharing your life with thousands of internet strangers.
gosh when you say it like that JM it makes it sound like a totally crazy thing to do i guess i just like showing off lol. thanks for your comment
Both I and my partner read your blog regularly on our blog reader, so I am not sure we even add to your statistics. You may be loved more than you even know.
thanks Michelle…stats i suppose are just a guideline since the number at the bottom is page views and not visitors….but i just like knowing there are like minded folk out there that enjoy it and can relate to my ramblings!
One word…. vicariously.
Hi again — Technically, I’m only a quasi-lurker since I’ve posted a few comments and even corresponded with you once or twice via Rubberpal, but since I’m not a “regular”, I figure I still carry at least honorary lurker status.
You *love* your lurkers. I *envy* that you even have lurkers. I need to have “Love my imaginary lurkers” day for my own vanilla web sites…apparently there’s not quite the same huge, silent reader base for boring vanilla stuff that there is for kinksters.
That’s all…just felt like saying hi and then whining a bit. Better now.
thanks TMR sometimes one word is enough
Ollie, thanks for your comment i’m sure even the vanilla stuff can be spiced up a bit to attract attention….unless it’s something really dull like accountancy lol
tho even then…..i know a pretty sexy accountant!