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	<title>Comments on: Love-Hate</title>
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		<title>By: thisgirl</title>
		<link>http://thisgirl.wordpress.com/2008/10/26/love-hate/#comment-7694</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 11:43:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks chance :) i guess absence makes the heart grow fonder though its bloody irritating! xx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks chance <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  i guess absence makes the heart grow fonder though its bloody irritating! xx</p>
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		<title>By: Destiny and chance</title>
		<link>http://thisgirl.wordpress.com/2008/10/26/love-hate/#comment-7691</link>
		<dc:creator>Destiny and chance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 19:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post this girl. I really relate. Destiny says I love and miss her most when she&#039;s not there.

chance</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post this girl. I really relate. Destiny says I love and miss her most when she&#8217;s not there.</p>
<p>chance</p>
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		<title>By: thisgirl</title>
		<link>http://thisgirl.wordpress.com/2008/10/26/love-hate/#comment-7690</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>baby, I had to laugh at the Veruca salt comment she is such an uber brat! Though, you know i&#039;m not so bad as that though maybe I should not get too close to any squirrels..just in case! :)

Velvet,  aww thanks for your comments. I feel guilty sometimes about moaning about the distance thing because I know I dont have it as bad a some people, I mean, I can more or less get there in a few hours if I&#039;m not working and have petrol money but gosh it just gets more irritating! As for him not wanting a completely compliant subbie? I know already what his thoughts on that are....put it this way i think he has his own plans.

t, i quite like the demon in him ;)

Thanks for the lovely comments everyone xx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>baby, I had to laugh at the Veruca salt comment she is such an uber brat! Though, you know i&#8217;m not so bad as that though maybe I should not get too close to any squirrels..just in case! <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Velvet,  aww thanks for your comments. I feel guilty sometimes about moaning about the distance thing because I know I dont have it as bad a some people, I mean, I can more or less get there in a few hours if I&#8217;m not working and have petrol money but gosh it just gets more irritating! As for him not wanting a completely compliant subbie? I know already what his thoughts on that are&#8230;.put it this way i think he has his own plans.</p>
<p>t, i quite like the demon in him <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for the lovely comments everyone xx</p>
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		<title>By: trinity-pup</title>
		<link>http://thisgirl.wordpress.com/2008/10/26/love-hate/#comment-7688</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 10:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what you have with Grimly is very special and i know you&#039;d never want to give that up, no matter how demonic He becomes!   It&#039;s very hard to find someone on your exact wavelength, but once you find it, it is amazing.  i somehow see being a &#039;brat&#039; as a bit of a test for a Doms and know that i can be one, and have been recently!    ;-)   Great post... as ever!

t.  x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what you have with Grimly is very special and i know you&#8217;d never want to give that up, no matter how demonic He becomes!   It&#8217;s very hard to find someone on your exact wavelength, but once you find it, it is amazing.  i somehow see being a &#8216;brat&#8217; as a bit of a test for a Doms and know that i can be one, and have been recently!    <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />    Great post&#8230; as ever!</p>
<p>t.  x</p>
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		<title>By: VelvetClaw</title>
		<link>http://thisgirl.wordpress.com/2008/10/26/love-hate/#comment-7687</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 08:42:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, long distance relationships suck. In fact any situation in which you can&#039;t be with the person with whom you want to be is sucky. It does, at least, usually mean the time you are able to spend together is more special. And it won&#039;t be forever.

Having met you both though, it&#039;s completely clear how much of a great fit you are for each other and how utterly happy you are. You work together really well so maybe you don&#039;t need to change a thing? After all, I suspect Grimly likes the challenge really and wouldn&#039;t want a completely compliant subbie.

There&#039;s more I want to say about the love/hate thing and the control aspect but I don&#039;t have the time to get my thoughts properly in order this morning. Maybe I&#039;ll re-read the post and add more later.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, long distance relationships suck. In fact any situation in which you can&#8217;t be with the person with whom you want to be is sucky. It does, at least, usually mean the time you are able to spend together is more special. And it won&#8217;t be forever.</p>
<p>Having met you both though, it&#8217;s completely clear how much of a great fit you are for each other and how utterly happy you are. You work together really well so maybe you don&#8217;t need to change a thing? After all, I suspect Grimly likes the challenge really and wouldn&#8217;t want a completely compliant subbie.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s more I want to say about the love/hate thing and the control aspect but I don&#8217;t have the time to get my thoughts properly in order this morning. Maybe I&#8217;ll re-read the post and add more later.</p>
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		<title>By: baby</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 00:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ooooh I loved this post!!!  A few things I can say I very much relate to - (trying not to sound corny) long distance being #1, the feelings/cravings/need when not together and subdrop when we separate, and though there&#039;s been no chastity belts, I&#039;ve been denied - and (unlike how you wrote your response to it is) something snaps in me everytime and I am the nastiest - I  have my Veruca Salt moment, though less as each time we get to be together passes....  Enjoyed reading your blog, as always.... :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ooooh I loved this post!!!  A few things I can say I very much relate to &#8211; (trying not to sound corny) long distance being #1, the feelings/cravings/need when not together and subdrop when we separate, and though there&#8217;s been no chastity belts, I&#8217;ve been denied &#8211; and (unlike how you wrote your response to it is) something snaps in me everytime and I am the nastiest &#8211; I  have my Veruca Salt moment, though less as each time we get to be together passes&#8230;.  Enjoyed reading your blog, as always&#8230;. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: thisgirl</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 21:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>are you brat? hmm i&#039;m not the right person to ask am I !

I found Grimly somewhere quite remote! So ...you never know...maybe you should take up sailing lol.

TG xx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>are you brat? hmm i&#8217;m not the right person to ask am I !</p>
<p>I found Grimly somewhere quite remote! So &#8230;you never know&#8230;maybe you should take up sailing lol.</p>
<p>TG xx</p>
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		<title>By: reader</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 12:22:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my, I had to read the posting twice in a row. TG, you might just save me from making stupidities and messing around with people I shouldn&#039;t get involved with in the first place. (I am not a total hermit!) With reassurance if there were someone out there who fits in with my highs and lows, he&#039;ll find me. Eventually. He&#039;d better hurry to appear before I die. With a broad smile on his face and a deep and secure bond from eye to eye.
And if he fucking doesn&#039;t? Let him rot on his remote island.
Am I a brat?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my, I had to read the posting twice in a row. TG, you might just save me from making stupidities and messing around with people I shouldn&#8217;t get involved with in the first place. (I am not a total hermit!) With reassurance if there were someone out there who fits in with my highs and lows, he&#8217;ll find me. Eventually. He&#8217;d better hurry to appear before I die. With a broad smile on his face and a deep and secure bond from eye to eye.<br />
And if he fucking doesn&#8217;t? Let him rot on his remote island.<br />
Am I a brat?</p>
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