Picture – suspended in a bondage box
It seems a lot of BDSMers and fetishists inherently try and put themselves and others into boxes, and put labels on people or their fetishes.
This girl thinks thats wrong because everyone is absolutely different. If she was to try to put a label on what it is she does, or what it is she is , she’s not sure she could.
She’s a submissive yes, but one who questions it, one who challenges it and she’s not a doormat that will cave to his every whim. Ok, so maybe she should more than she does lol – but still. As far as BDSM goes, her play with her Dom is sometimes a bit unusual and not what your average submissive does with their Dom. Play tends to be about him using his imagination and creativity to stimulate her and enjoy himself in feeding his sadism, rather than just him using her for his pleasure alone.
Ok so she does fit into THIS box.
When this picture was taken last week it was the first time she had been in the suspension box since the first time she played with her Dom. With him being such a toy whore (what someone called him once) its taken about 3 years to get round to using it again.
The first time she went into the box, she was naked and being flogged and teased by him and it was during the first weekend where she had experienced suspension. She’d never tried it before she met her Dom. Suspension is a fun thing to try, especially combined with sensory deprivation because its a really fast way to experience a sort of floaty sub space.
Their first play in the box actually probably triggered their relationship because whilst she was in it he squirted her with water, and then that encouraged her to ‘get him back’ by squirting him with water in the middle of the night. Waking a dom up with freezing cold water in the middle of the night is not a good idea if you dont know how they’ll react. Your stereotypical dom might have ignored it, or questioned her respect of him, but no, this girl’s Dom dragged her out of her own bed,locked in her chastity and tormented her with electric control all night instead.
A sense of humour is important to the D/s that this girl and her Dom share and it always will be. BDSM definately should always be about fun.
