Homemade BDSM equipment

BDSM equipment is something that takes time to accumulate, whether it be corporal punishment equpiment, torture ‘accessories’, bondage equipment and furniture or anything else imaginable. For a lot of people it will be a collection of things that they’ve mostly bought via the internet or at fetish fairs and generally the quality of bought BDSM equipment can vary in quality and price and there are plenty of ways to get ripped off! Mostly by paying too much for an item of inferior quality.

In a lot of ways accumulating kit is a fun thing to do and for this girl a lot of things she has bought have memories attached to them…like the flogger she bought during a fun weekend with friends in Birmingham or presents from pervy friends at Christmas and so on. So a lot of items in their own way can be special and have meanings and memories attached to them.

However, it is so much better to have your own personal Dom toymaker. lol.

One of the things that attracted this girl to her Dom was the fact that he *could* make things and that he had the ability and equipment to make a lot of her fantasies come true. Ok so a lot of things he has have still took time to get together and build up but there’s something special and personal about using things that have been lovingly (albeit sadistically !) made.

This girl feels special when he uses something on her that he has made himself as it shows the thought and imagination that he has put into their fantasy – not just during the scene but well in advance of it(she knows that saving up for something special and buying it can show a lot of thought and be special too…but its more unique and individual when its home-made).

This girl knows that when he is making something he is picturing how it will be ‘appreciated’ ;) and how it will make this girl feel physically and mentally but also she knows that he is thinking of her and that his feelings for her are going into it as well. Especially with things that reflect the D/s part of the relationship like this girl’s collar. She knows that a lot of thought and love went into that specifically.

This girl knows her Master prides himself on his technical ability and that it is something he is far from modest about! lol. Its part of the exhibitionist in him,some people in BDSM show off by demonstrating how dominant or submissive, or masochistic or sadistic they are but this girls’ dom goes further than that by showing off his creativity and imagination at the same time. He likes people being impressed. But then,really we all like people to be envious of us and to be admired – at least some of the time!

Its probably not that hard to learn how to make equipment either, this girl has known quite a few people who have learnt to make things like floggers and st andrews crosses and there are sites (she’ll edit this post later and put some in) that give you ideas and instructions on how to make things.

But with *her* Master she never quite knows what he is going to come out with as his technical ability is for the most part equal to his imagination so a lot of the time if he thinks of something he can work out a way of doing it.

Sometimes she wonders if she takes him for granted because really she is very fortunate that she has someone who can do this and take the S&M part of the relationship further than tying her to a cross and whipping her – which is good for some people but this girl *always* fantasised about more -about predicaments and contraptions that played with the mind as much as the body. lol. Maybe she has a rather twisted mind but so what! At least there is at least one person to appreciate it and understand it and help it develop!! ;)

5 thoughts on “Homemade BDSM equipment

  1. I agree in that clothes pegs can be effective (especially on tits!) but thats not really what I meant! Making use of domestic items for BDSM is a seperate issue entirely (although a very worthy one as it is how a lot of people start when either access to or funds to buy equipment is low or they are just generally getting started).
    However, I meant really that I am lucky that I have a dom that can *build* imaginative furniture and devices. For example – he modified a dentist chair into being a multi-functional torture chair with built in connection points for e-stim and clit stimulation, he made a home-made fuck machine using the motors for car windscreen wipers, he converted a medical bed into a fully working rack and he has made suspension harnesses and the like as well not to mention countless things out of leather like restraints and collars! So see what I mean about me being lucky! lol.
    Put it this way…in the UK they have a programme called scrap heap challenge…where they have to make all sorts of things (like boats and stuff) out of junk…think a bdsm version of that. But with a bit more panache! ;) His stuff doesnt look like junk either it looks bought..and of good quality just the materials cost less if not nothing and the labour is all lovingly invested!
    T.G.

  2. I’d love to find someone that would have the same appreciation for skills, knowledge and imagination. I’m currently working on starting my own business, and making BDSM furniture/apparatus is one of the many things I can, and want to do. I’m a welder by trade and enjoy it. Working with steel, s/steel, aluminium, etc, has always appealed to me, but I have always wanted to work for myself making things that others can enjoy using, what-ever the product may be. This may not sound much to some, but I made some presents for friends. When I couldn’t find anything suitable in ANY shops, I decided to put my imagination to good use. The look of appreciation on my friends faces when they realised their gifts were completely unique was priceless. Being able to do the same for those who have an interest in BDSM would keep driving me to imagine newer and better ideas, and to bring them to life. I’ve already made a couple of BDSM items (steel hog-tie, shackles…). I loved making them and want to make more. But it’s kind of empty when you don’t know anyone that has an interest in the ‘hidden’ side of sex.

  3. hi DE tried to reply to your email but it wouldn’t send . Anyway, thanks for your comment :) Good look with finding someone to share your interests I”m sure you shall :) x

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